KEEP NO SECRETS TELL NO LIES
Living under a rock is something I cannot relate to. How else will you have any real understanding and appreciation for life? Wisdom comes from slight calculated exposure, there is simply no other way. Even in choosing friends, I prefer the socially fluid to the “pure” nerds who are reclusive and completely prone to collapsing under any form of external pressure. Knowing does not mean abusing. Self ignorance and Lalaland stupidity is not a virtue, it is mere cowardice which eventually handicaps you in a myriad of ways. The earlier the exposure, like to unique foods and expansive travel, be it with your own family, alone by your self or even with a travel partner, the more graceful, understanding, tolerant, immune, street wise you will be. Versus the preening princess or small town village idiot who faints at the sight of diverse cultures or snowflakes being left alone, without mummies apron strings, even for a second. Not balanced. Not aligned. Remaining Self ignorant and unaware. Any families who are ultra strict with blind obedience, teaching never to question authority or the status quo, and these kids end up the most controlling, most insecure, most insincere, often sly, sneaky liars, corrupt doing secret underground black market debauchery. Addictive, drunks, and drugs to loosen up artificially, cannot just drink one glass of wine it has to be 5. Classic cloistered, gluttony, catholic school rebellion. On the surface, you seem to have more control over the kids and perhaps you are even extremely sheltered and hidden in one good book dogmatic theory, but the diverse options you will be able to hold, grow and nourish become quite limited. Superficially, this cloistered conditioning may seem to make you more “pure” or "educated" because there is quite literally not much actually going on here, like living on a farm or small town and never leaving, but it certainly makes you less rich in terms of lived experience. In terms of human consciousness. In terms of getting out of your own conditional and life limiting attached minds. Whole People simply relax in each moment, they chill, they wisely respond NOT explosively react and be simply have dropped any limiting self ignorance. Simple. Common. Ordinary. The wisest souls have faced challenges, overcome adversity, sometimes in subtle doses, sometimes in torrents, to become a fascinating, secure, and transparent integrated individual in multiple ways. The same concept applies to the snowflake kid who always has mummy doing everything for him, the little tightly bound up preening princess who has never traveled or been independent. These are the limited ones, tied tightly to creed, dogma or tradition, good or bad, they follow the herd, maybe don't ever want to leave home, or constantly get sick in college because their body literally collapses. They remain anxiously co dependent at a cellular level well into their twenties, or later... Limited people become easily homesick because they are still tied tightly to the safety net of a short umbilical chord, while other braver souls are out adventuring leaving the nest at age appropriate times, and learning a fuller, richer, deeper LIFE as they go. Precious little princesses and entitled baby BOT tell snowflakes are unable to withstand the pressures of either diversity or novelty as they have always been overly coddled. Parents, never do that to your child. Get a part time job early. Study hard what interests you the most, be kindly self disciplined. Let people be, let other's live in curated, cloistered, selective ways and they too shall become limited, racist, ageist, limiting or unkind assholes. Let the child be their own unique soul, possibly street sharp and independent from an age appropriate early age, because it will help them not play into the herd mentality people pleasing attached minds. They will actually make their own life decisions from infallible judgment rather than being a loser victim.  |
| THE ANGELS HAPPY EARTH DAY WONATEOHONESEVENTY4 Some people spend years searching for meaning in big moments, only to realise it’s been waiting for them in the ordinary ones. Some of it shows up as a slow morning or uncontrollable laughter with friends. Beauty lives in the small things we choose to notice. 18/01/26 happy b earth day #PABATAI #TCMF26 |
