RESPECT FULL. GRACE FULL. MEANING FULL. HEART CONNECT NOT MIND ATTACH.
Stay away from limited people with dogmatic mind attachments who force their issues, who enable poor behaviour choices, who are not transparent and only begrudgingly tolerate your mistakes,
Avoid completely those one track wonders who push you to do misaligned things, and who convince you to ruin something aligned with your own soul.
Limiting people can’t help you grow, mind attached dogma, myopic narrow views will only drag you down and slowly poison your liberation.
Discerningly choose not to follow any proscriptive mindset that is limiting, or become like them just to fit in or avoid loneliness.
Cults of busyness, racist assholes, limiting or conversionist religious models, spirituality that demands blind obedience, any rapacious business models that put corporate greed and profit over human well being are to be called out.
Choose self care, choose maturity, choose boundaries, and choose the person you are firstly fully committed to.
Your self.
It is not selfish to ensure your basic needs are met. Ensure your moment by moment choices support that as best you can. Firstly.
What human energies you choose to connect with, either in family, romantic or platonic connections, matter.
Therefore choose to invest your time in alignment; which extends to substances you wisely consume or groups and clubs and associations you attach to. These moment by moment, day to day choices really do become your lived reality.
You become like the 5 people you spend the most time with. Thats why discerning choices in life matter.
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| FROM LOVE NOT FOR LOVE |
To surrender as the love that you are, is to risk breaking your heart. You descend into the wide open heart space by realising there is NOTHING to realise.
Enough is enough.
Always was.ENOUGH.
Always is. ENOUGH.
Always will be. ENOUGH.
You may have to remind your self, Or practice or have to still do “it” over and over again to know you’ll be fine…
Whatever “it” is for you, you’ll keep loopy loop around in endless circles, doing it until you realise
you’ve survived every one of your “moments” to now haven’t you?
And why is that?
As you are already coming from love (NOT for love(when you finally, eventually, hope fully realise you are enough right now!
And you already are your own (and only) life long treasure. You’ve dismissed all attached mind self ignorance!
yay, go the fuck you!
Welcome home, back to reality.
Wherever you go, you are. Ensure you are accepting and loving that person, firstly, foremost and fully.
Be wise and discerning with what you say consciously or unconsciously, what you feel and what you do.
Don’t just randomly spread vacuous noise, projecting puerile none sense, blurting stuff out because you are uncomfortable with or in your own vast inner silence.
Silence does not mean not talking, or not participating fully in life, silence in this context means an unwavering self love that cannot be shaken by anything. You embody and become the love and live it and share it and be it. Fully. Totally. Absolutely.
Ensure what you put out there is more beauty full than that inner silence and you will never be led astray. You will simply light another candle and lose absolutely nothing in the process or practice.
Attached mind beliefs, dogmatic thoughts, narrow creeds, limiting staid, stuck, cloistered energy of restrictive uncritical thinking becomes your words. Once words are released & given life, they have their own natural resonance, which sets a wave going.
If you are unable to listen or receive you also have little hope of clear, clean and direct comprehension.
You may intellectually “think” you get it?
Stuck up in an analytical head.
But have you really grasped the deeper energetic lessons of comprehended nuance and overt subtly? The open heart to heart stuff?
This is what to pay attention AND actually comprehend with coherence really means.
To connect not merely attach.
And to do that so energy is actually mutually exchanged, you need to slow down and check in, fully with your own energy. Intentional Connection to your breath. Feel it. Each one. Each breath. And don’t forget the two pauses every breathing cycle. Most people completely ignore the two pauses in each breath cycle, so they remain ignorant of their own life flow. Simply breathe consciously. In. PAUSE. Out. PAUSE. Repeat that conscious, intentional pattern as often as you may deem neccessary for YOU to create your own bliss full life. I find if i breathe INTENTIONALLY, more often than not, I actually stay alive and aware and awake. Moment to moment. Self ignorance flies out the proverbial unlocked mind attached cage. Mind attachments simply cease to exist.
Before you even attempt to receive another you must learn to connect to your own breath, intentionally, AND catch your own energy early.
The greatest myth on earth is that communication has actually taken place.
BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE OFTEN TOO BUSY HUFFING AND PUFFING AND BLOWING FALSE NON EXISTENT HOUSES DOWN… 3 little Pigs to market? Anyone? Beuller? Anyone…?
Be careful FULL what you both wish for and put out there. You create your own reality with EVERYTHING you share. Selective retention of energy is far more preferable than indiscriminate vapid verbosity.
Beware the self ignorant donkey who seeks attention down at the public house, and thinks it’s a lion.



