Masculine Energy Integration

Dis Integrated Masculine Energy of Micro Managing, Over Sharing & Over Controlling

A dis Intgrated masculine energy (far from “whole” or healthy) is when you are being over controlling, over sharing (leaking energy due to insecurity) or attempting to micro manage. 

To simply reflect and be more aware however, that we don’t live in a vacuum and there are other people to consider with our choices of behaviour. 

If masculine energy is vacuous, overbearing and dis integrated, it has impulses to control everything in the environment, including other’s actions, due to their own Insecurity, anxiety or unprocessed energy. If you project too much insincere, insecure or dis integrated masculine energy, others will soon feel unheard. There is no space to flow if a micro manager masculine attaches to “that’s the way we’ve always done it” stuck, staid, controlling and a non flexible container that limits. You have heard of micromanaging. And you have probably heard that you can’t change other people, the only person you can change is yourself.

If you project dis integrated masculine energy you are completely forgetting who you really are when actually in your healthy whole masculine. Minding your own business, leading without projecting, listening and receiving but then choosing to protect (not project) by warrior not worrier energy. If You try to micro manage (due to insecurity)  and take charge of others without their consent or consideration you will quickly create an energetic dissonance. You will repel and not attract. Like energy attracts like energy. Wholeness attracts wholeness. Without trusting in the process and respecting individuated sovereignty, all people have their own inner guidance to navigate their lives. Whether or not they choose to access that intuition is up to them, if you ignore that fact, you become controlling. And that sucks. 

Sometimes this dis integrated insecure controlling comes in a very covert package. Then it is called manipulation. 

That is called gaslighting. 

That is called projection due to seeking validation externally. 

Often, dis integrated masculine energy manipulates without even realising  we are doing it… or do we?

A good example of attaching unhealthy dis integrated masculine energy is when a woman can’t slow down and relax. She must stay busy. She stays so far out in front of her true nature that she misses the obvious. She is a runner, she is chaotic, constant crisis, never ending drama, bouncing from one unfinished project to the next. Maybe she stays busy by keeping her house anal retentively clean or working too much or ignoring self care and self worth. People pleasing, perfectionism, wanting to control due to an inability to receive. Maybe she stays busy in her life by tending to others needs more than her own. You know, the woman who loves too much and loses herself in a relationship or in over-service to her kids and family. A helicopter mom creating snowflake entitled children, Is her “angry” micro managing mothering showing too much masculine or feminine energy? Though she is female, doing a traditionally female task, she is attaching and projecting far too much masculine energy to her “mothering” role. This results in some pretty fucked up children, and as the cliche truly states, “ the fruit does not fall far from the tree” 

Look within, re balance and re align both masculine and feminine energy, regardless of gender. 

This is what it means to be wholly integrated. 

One whole divine being, polarities welcomed and Integrated through the middle ground zero point. 

 Welcome back home to this unwavering centre, whenever you are simply ready to surrender to your own true nature. 

This Consciousness is THE simplest thing on earth, once we drop and dismiss and discard all that we are not. To live a connected heart centred life, unattached to the mind.