STANDARDS ARE NOT EXPECTATIONS
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Whole humans feel life fully, They laugh easily, They cry easily, and accept reality of this one present moment grace fully. A completely free flowing And relaxed nervous system is something authentic humans Choose and prioritise. If anything costs them their peace It is far too expensive. Discerning intentional standards. Realising fully That there is NOTHING to realise. In a human kind, In a human being, In a human who is already whole. (Not perfect) Mistakes are mere reminders. If we choose to consider. Mistakes are lessons. If we choose to reflect. Missed takes are not mistakes But exciting gifts and opportunities To learn and evolve. Sure some moments are hard. At times. Sure sone moments suck. At times. Sure some moments are a challenge. At times. But those moments are fleeting and do not constitute a life. Unless you choose to wallow in self pity or choose to myopically project onto others or choose to mind attach to thinking you know someone else better than they already know them self. Cease such erroneous bullshit immediately. If not sooner. Let them be. Let it be. Let each moment of reality be exactly what it is. Resistance of reality is futile. Speak up kindly supporting your needs. Surrender to reality. Speak up kindly supporting your values. Accept others as they show you they actually are. Do not fantasise. Do not romanticise. Do not hope a mean & nasty embedded character is just having a moment, every single moment. Why even do that? Why turn a blind eye, a side eye to nastiness? Why ignore your self? Why remain self ignorant at all? Why not resolve the question of “I” right now? Immediately. If not sooner. The “I” you may still be futilely chasing is right there at the tip of your nose. The eternal “infinite” PIN code that unlocks YOU is right there at the tip of your knows. THE SIMPLEST thing on earth, the easiest thing on earth, is so obvious, To anyone who realises, There is nothing to realise. Enough is enough. No secrets, No lies, No coaching, No bullshit healing or time wasting growth or expensive courses and expert saviours… You already are your own PIN code. Unique only to you. Unlocks you entirely. All magic, all mystery revealed for ever. Unwavering core values. Unchanging self respect. Unadulterated pure and simple self love. This self knowledge is Entirely free to whoever chooses. This self love unwavering REAL FULL YOU Is already in plain clear sight, ONCE WE DISMISS ANY SELF IGNORANCE REALISE no choices at all pure & simple, full YOU, FIRST. Pristine true nature, total YOU, FIRST. Nothing to choose, unwavering YOU, FIRST. Humble Whole Fully unique and over flowing Not projecting Not gaslighting Not a needy, greedy, seedy ego Not a dis integrated grasping survival ego You ALREADY are (whenever you realise, there is NOTHING to realise) YOU already are No choices at all No deliberation at all No waiting at all No self generated chaos at all No self ignorance at all No potential in an anxious nebulous future at all Why even invite in such shallow infected bullshit? When you already are whole and complete? Well Rested and well watered Satiated Satisfied Secure Sincere Now ready to share THAT LIFE MUTUAL over flow; WITH AN ALIGNED ENERGETIC EQUAL ALSO Secure & grounded ALSO Sincere & sensual ALSO Open & erudite ALSO GENEROUS & GRACIOUS ALSO Honest & Unwavering ALSO perfectly human kind ALSO UNWAVERING CORE VALUES ALSO unchanging immutable self worth ALSO pure & simple unadulterated fierce standards ALSO beauty full boundaries of self respect ALSO GRACE FULL VALUES OF FORGIVENESS ALSO WONDER FULL MUTUAL joy and light hearted co created innocent mischief All so Simple and easy and flowing and fresh STRONGLY MUTUAL FIERCELY TENDER WILDLY GENTLE GRACIOUSLY RAW & ROAR WHATEVER EACH ARE FULLY FEELING IN THE MOMENT IT IS ALL OK (Just never be an insincere, unkind asshole, if you can at all help it…) And even if you do choose to demonstrate those unkind asshole behaviours Quickly apologise. In a heartbeat. Quickly forgive. In a heartbeat. Quickly realise you may have momentarily lost your wholeness. Too many drugs. Too many wines. Too many life by pass manipulative tactics. Too many lame excuses. Too much avoidance or enabling or entitlement. Too much saccharine spiritual woo woo. Too much overthinking in elevated intellectual head space people pleasing. Too much anxiety in fighting or controlling ghosts who don’t even exist. Too much depression in minds attached to dim dark distant childhood chaos. Too much attached mind thinking about ANYTHING. Paralysis by analysis in your own induced stress and invited busyness. Not realising who you really are. Yet. Lost little tightly tethered caged souls, domesticated and strongly conditioned little puppies Lost in attached mind routine Lost in attached mind over sharing gossip Lost in attached mind over sharing thinking Lost in attached mind over sharing chaos Lost in attached mind dreary drama Lost in attached mind unlistening control freak insecure projections Lost in attached mind of living the unhappy lie of a half life and then calling it living. Lost in attached mind of excessive people pleasing and ignoring red flags and negotiating or compromising with persistently habitually, entitled unkind assholes. Why even do that shit to your self? Lost in attached mind of settling for less than you deserve. Why? Lost in living a lie. Why? Lost in self ignorance. Why? Lost in racism or misogyny or alcohol fuelled bar room fools? Limited. Limiting. Limitations. Little boxes Cloistered Closed minds Closed hearts Closed to now. Non feeling Non flowing Non sensual None sense. Why even hang around in such poisonous over sharing shallow infected swamp waters? Why even associate with energy vampires? Why even stay open to cloistered life avoiders? Why even entertain busy doofus stressed try hards, take take take do whatever it takes….? Why even subject your self to self ignorance of intellectual expert perfectionist ego driven elevated add vice…? When they may have every credential in life, a phd even, a piece of paper they hide behind, a sticker, a tag, a label, a biblical proportion outa control one good book converting ego, a my way or the highway insecurity of might is right, a self inflated golden wonka ticket of lost in living a lie and can’t STFU, a small busyness of maximum myopia and drug addled life avoidance, racists, misogynists, unkind know it alls, petty arguers, those who assume or think they know, the narrow minded back biting revenge seeking over sharers, the chaotic gossiping bar stool happy clapping fools, the mighty minion mansplainers who repeatedly prove they are not to be trusted to feel their own life fully, Once you realise (with real eyes) There is NOTHING TO REALISE Life becomes ever so simple. Life flows. Early. Easily. Simply. Life is now. And Only now. One moment, please. One Fresh moment and one full moment and one liberated moment, every single moment. You fully realised Spontaneous. Easy No try No healing No hidden metaphors, No convolutions. No complexity. No moaning life victims. Fully Grounded and fiercely gracious So simple. Unique, your personal PIN code That you’ll never forget ever again. So easy that many humans miss it completely or even purposefully ignore it. Self ignorance is rife. Called drama. Self ignorance is everywhere. Called Chaos. Self ignorance is not yet realising there is nothing to realise. Self ignorance is so far anxiously out in front of it self it does not even realise what it is feeling. Disconnected to now. Attached to then. Disconnected to heart. Attached to mind. Disconnected to present moment. Attached minds trying to control a nebulous future that never arrives. Attached minds of “back in my day” cloistered, closed, converting, myopic, restrictive, suffocating, shallow, un sensual. depressive settled smelly swamps of attached mind yester daze fear. Attached mind Yesterdaze troubles. Attached bar stool fools, the happy clapping projectionists and over Sharing life fixer uppers and real life avoiders. Those who refuse to feel life, the stoic stiff upper lips The zombie walking dead The myopic dogmatic one good bookers The prissy preacher telling you how to live, love or laugh… my way or the highway style or let life move them. Do not hope an alcoholic asshole is actually Don’t enable. Don’t excuse. Don’t turn a blind eye. Speak up concisely, succinctly, clearly supporting your priorities. Right now.
as there are Who already prioritises Who already catches their own energy early Peace full Respect full Joy full Use full Wonder full Meaning full Grace full LIMIT LESS How anxious we are to find an answer to our problems! We are so eager to find an answer that we cannot study the problem; it prevents our silent observation of the problem. STFU more LIMIT LESS “Broader inclusive perspectives change everything” DISCERN MORE THINK MORE DEEPLY WITHOUT MIND ATTACHMENT Your network is your net worth. Stop tolerating less. Start raising your standards. Surround yourself with people who are accountable, communicative, make clear agreements, respect boundaries, and co create mutually beneficial relationships. You become who you surround yourself with. You become who you choose to share space and time with. You become who you have always been. If you let yourself remember. HUMAN NATURE FULL WHOLE COMPLETE LISTEN FIRST UNWAVERING SELF RESPECT. HUMAN KIND Unchanging core values. CEASE THE PREACHING CEASE THE REACHING CEASE THE ATTACHED MIND CEASE THE Intellectual HEAD CASES CEASE THE LIMITING ASSUMING & gossiping Over sharing… 2 EYES 2 EARS 1 MOUTH SIMPLY STFU & LISTEN MORE SUNRISE GOLDEN RATIO 2 EYES 2 EARS 1 MOUTH THE INFINITE PARADOX ONE RECEPTIVE CRESCENDO LISTEN, Come back to simplicity INNER SPACES, Call back your wholeness FULLNESS, Remember who you’ve always been ONE CREATURE IN ONE CREATION HUMAN NATURE is HEART CONNECTED not mind attached unadulterated self love. RELAX, NOTHING IS UNDER CONTROL IN THIS ONE BARE MOMENT. ‘Love is a mystery, and the greatest mystery is that it is never fully understood.’~ Ivan Bunin HEART CONNECTION ~ NO REASONS NEEDED ~ FEEL IT KNOW IT REALISE IT BE IT not A STAID STUCK ANXIOUS BELIEF A MIND ATTACHMENT A PARALYSIS BUY ANALYSIS… A COMPARE, CONTEST, con troll… A CAPITALISTIC KILLING FIELD NEEDY GREEDY SEEDY OUT OF CONTROL CONSUMERISM TAKE TAKE TAKE DO WHATEVER IT FAKES… GREED & GLUTTONY in RETAIL RUTS MATERIALISM RAPACIOUS RE tale… KA CHING KA CHING KA CHING chained to the Wheel Of fought tune… Cashing inn Drunk on punch Fight fight fight Survival energy Drowning rats on sink king shifts… Leak king Fight ing Loose goose Loose units Life buy passers Drunken stoners By pass buoys and babe he girls… Living a half life lie And calling it living… Yet to realise There is nothing to realise We, us, you, me, I Already are Once we dismiss all we are not… Return to the big black bang inner conception point DNA it’s already encoded in your stars… From love not for love Without having to do a God Damned thing No religious hairy fairy tails No limiting one good bookers No obscure obscene sorrows No spiritual woo woo by pass zealots No drunken scared baby bottle stoners No happy clapping doofus dumb fucks No limited life bar stool fools No limiting misogynistic racist unkind assholes Nothing at all to realise Nothing at all to escape from Nothing at all to try hard to be Nothing at all to heal or hope or hurry Once we realise There is NOTHING to realise Already whole Already complete Already unique and true natured Once we dismiss all that insults our soul Once we ditch all that hurts our wide open protected discerning heart Once we drop any remaining people pleasing Once we drop any counterfeit empathy (those without higher standards) once we drop any remaining perfectionism Once we simply discard, dismiss and ditch all we are not… Erudite simplicity Excellence of giving a fuck Equanimity of realising There is NOTHING to realise No attached mind addictive meditation or yoga No attached mind addictive spiritual woo woo No attached mind intellectual philosophy No attached mind honest stoner No attached mind drunken bar stool fool No attached mind limiting one good book No attached mind staid stuck intellectual perfectionist head case No attached mind assuming, “thinking you know” No attached mind telling, gas lighting, projecting, converting, controlling, contesting, comparing, competing, or basically being an insecure, insincere prisoner of society… Step outside the illusion One moment please True nature is simple Elementary Seasonal A gentle forward momentum Earth Fire Air Water Come back to the grounded foundations Tender Strong Fiercely kind Unwavering standards Unchanging values Unadulterated ethics and morals and inter generational higher standards. Thank life. Thank this moment. Thank your parents. Thank Even those who did not know what they do… Be your own muse, first. Be your own life lover, first. Be your own perfectly imperfect super hero. Be you. And guess what? You already are… If you ever forget who you really are, The same lesson will KEEP appearing in different forms, In different places, In different relationships, until you learn to LISTEN To your OWN TRUE NATURE and then DISCERNINGLY INTENTIONALLY CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE to respond differently. Slow It All Down Live fully Live consciously Live intentionally Choose to Connect not attach Choose to Integrate not project Choose to Intrinsic within not gaslight & gormless Choose to be Lit fully from within not wishy washy all over the place societal swampy and smelly external… Return to you Fully. Come home to you Totally. Surrender only to you Absolutely. Realise your own True Nature (Once you dismiss all you are not…) Enough is enough Already whole Already complete Already fully unique EVENT RESPONSE OUTCOME SIMPLE… #E.R.O.S. Keep IT sensuously simple #K.I.S.S. And then… Once you realise There is nothing to realise? Carry on mudda duckers… #quack #quack Why so serious? Unless it is…. Lighten up Live more Love more Be exactly who you already are From love. Not for love. “The irony is that we attempt to disown our difficult stories to appear more whole or more acceptable, but our wholeness - even our wholeheartedness - actually depends on the integration of all of our experiences, including the falls.” ― BrenÃĐ Brown hurry kills presence worry kills peace doubt kills faith ego kills Love (now read that from right to left) “Admit it. You aren’t like them. You’re not even close. You may occasionally dress yourself up as one of them, watch the same mindless television shows as they do, maybe even eat the same fast food sometimes. But it seems that the more you try to fit in, the more you feel like an outsider, watching the “normal people” as they go about their automatic existences. For every time you say club passwords like “Have a nice day” and “Weather’s awful today, eh?”, you yearn inside to say forbidden things like “Tell me something that makes you cry” or “What do you think deja vu is for?”. Face it, you even want to talk to that girl in the elevator. But what if that girl in the elevator (and the balding man who walks past your cubicle at work) are thinking the same thing? Who knows what you might learn from taking a chance on conversation with a stranger? Everyone carries a piece of the puzzle. Nobody comes into your life by mere coincidence. Trust your instincts. Do the unexpected. Find the others…” ― Timothy Leary [ Art • “The Guardian of the Wilderness” by OrphnÃĐ AchÃĐron ] |
