Meet A Lover, Not A Dictator.
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“When you trust, you are tender and delicate, but when you doubt, you are dangerous and destructive. I love the abstract, delicate, profound, vague, voluptuously wordless sensation of living ecstatically.” Anais Nin. |
Being attracted to her is beautiful but superficial. You also need to make her feel desired on a soul level. Nourish her mind, her inner child, & her spirit. All women want is to be tenderly adored, even those who are often in their masculine energy.
It’s a deep desire from the full feminine for softness & gentleness. It does not mean fully feminine women are not capable or strong. But women ARE women and desire The Fully Masculine male to be attentive, to listen and to adore her without losing his own direction.
Feminine woman desire sensuality from their man, they want to be held, they desire non sexual touch. Woman appreciate feeling their man's safe energetic embrace, through his eyes, his touch and his intrinsic core values of who he is and what he stands for.
A feminine woman can surrender to her own true nature because she realises, there is nothing to realise. A wild full woman finds it easy to be vulnerable with an equal, a man who is unwavering and direct without being dominant or controlling. Full feminine Women deserve a strong container of masculine presence, which is essential and reassuring but she also does not want constrictive or overly validating energy to dominate.
Nor does a wild whole feminine woman want any of her own insecurities to be played on or pointed out in a demeaning or harsh way. An embodied feminine woman realises it is NOT the masculine's role to provide her "wholeness" or validate any remaining insecurities if a woman is truly coming from HER OWN consciousness. His role is simply to provide unwavering support, unchanging reassurance, a non judgmental listening space for her to realise what it is she needs to choose. He trusts her implicitly because he knows she is strong and resilient and capable and does not need him to do what only she must. Go within and seek her own clarity. Go within and realise who she really is beyond the attached mind. Go within to reveal Her own awareness of who she is and what she stands for at her unwavering core.
Like energy always attracts like energy, unadulterated light hearted joy attracts light hearted unadulterated joy, it is science, it is physics, it is manifesting the glowing energy of her own embodied strength, her own core values and character shining brightly, an inner quiet Thunder, implicit and intrinsic, coming from love NOT for love, and that authenticity will easily attract the same energy in a divine masculine equal.
