My God, Will You Just Look At That…

 True Love Exists

I know the world makes true love feel unrealistic sometimes. Especially if you’ve been hurt before. But your standards are not unrealistic baby, they are a reflection of the love you give.

If you love loyally, you’re allowed to expect loyalty. If you’ve chosen purity/celibacy, you’re allowed to desire someone who honors that same path. If you’ve committed to healing, you’re allowed to want someone who’s done the same. That’s not fantasy, it’s desiring to be with someone who’s in alignment with you. Someone who reciprocates your love and loves you as devotionally as you love them.

I believe in a God who is very intentional. Who doesn’t just match bodies, but souls. And when you surrender your love life to God, you won’t have to chase or perform. You’ll simply become who you were created to be, and your person will recognize you, in perfect divine timing.

Love isn’t dead. It’s just rare sometimes. But rare doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. God has already written your love story and I know it will exceed even your own expectations, if you keep having faith and if you keep becoming the best woman or man that you can be, for yourself and for your future family.

So don’t lose hope. Maybe you’ve been told that what you want “doesn’t exist”. Maybe you’ve been told your values are too old-fashioned. Maybe people laughed at you for expecting loyalty, the same type of loyalty you can offer. Maybe you’ve even started doubting yourself…

These are common things we read on the internet as well. And those voice are always loud too. But I’m here to tell you that your desire for something sacred is something you have to protect. It’s holy. Don’t ever abandon your heart’s deepest desires. The fact that it still lives inside of you, even in a world that often glorifies the opposite, means your heart is both strong and tender, and that’s oh so beautiful.

So keep walking in love, not fear. You don’t have to lower your values just to fit into a broken culture. You’re allowed to wait for someone who honors your depth. Not all men/women are black-pilled. Good men and women still exist.

And your beautiful love story will too.”

By Amanda Perera 

“CLEOPATRA”