OWN LANE OWN LIFE

People with control issues often feel they have the right to interfere in the lives of others. 

Controllers “think” they know, 

controllers assume,

controllers often innocently gaslight or purposefully project.

Mostly not evil, 

Mostly not wrong, 

Mostly not bad, 

Controllers 

are mostly insecure 

or simply limited.

Controllers

are mostly wanting certainty, 

attached intellectually,

Attached narrow,

Attached callow or 

Attached shallow 

with self ignorance 

or limited lived experience 

of what they are actually afraid of.

So they try to control others 

as they control their own attached

limiting agendas.

Of course, 

Love controllers more.

They may need it until they create their own unwavering self love. 

Validated From within.

Listen, receive, 

accept 

NOT necessarily AGREE, 

and then what?

Love insecure, opinionated, controllers 

more 

From love, 

Not for love, 

From a safe distance. 

Controllers may think that their way of doing things is the best way or only way and that they know better than everyone else.

This can lead controllers to project, Limit or even harass or bully others who do not agree with them. 

Simply let insecure controllers be and wish them all the best.

Mostly they are simply lost in certainty, lost in routine, lost in anxious overthinking attachments,  possibly living a half life lie, and even calling it living.