F.L.Y. First Love You.
Our values may be worlds apart
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| real friends are proud of you, not green with jealousy |
Our values may be worlds apart
And that’s ok
Our life priorities may be polar opposites
And that’s ok
Our definitions of discernment may be completely disparate.
And that’s ok.
Our desire (and need) to communicate openly may be misaligned.
And that’s ok.
Our needs for passion, desire and emotional intimacy firstly, may be simply different.
And that’s ok.
It is all ok.
Simply never be a cold hard hearted stone when someone shares their joy.
With You. As a conscious intentional priority.
Simply never be an unkind reactive entitled stuck up asshole.
That is NEVER ok.
Standards are not expectations.
Listen, receive, observe and do.
Rest reflect remember restore rise & repeat.
Let go is integration, the unlearning the inclusion of all that you are.
The grief. The Wild.
The sadness. The joy.
The madness. The light hearted mischief.
The righteous anger. The calm storms.
The insecure confusion. The discerning clarity.
Feel it all.
Let them in.
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| You're not just a star; you're a whole galaxy, full of depth and wonder. |
Own your self wholly and holy.
Be your self divinely and authentically.
When you do not blame or judge or shame another you have arrived.
When you do not blame or judge or shame your self you have arrived.
Consciousness?
Right now? Totally? Wholly? Absolutely?
Consciousness Nowhere to be,
Consciousness nothing to do to be it.
You already are the consciousness and it is your free birth rite.
So stop seeking or preaching or trying hard to heal or be whole. You already are.
Once we welcome and integrate and love without preference every thing we already are.
Multitudes.
Mystery.
Magic.
Gentle forward momentum.
Complete fucking awesomeness.
And you already are my friend.
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| Worth the lip bite marks |
If others can not yet be them self fully,
Just let them.
Simply be there with them
as they dig deeper and peel and feel their own life onion.
Simply let them be whoever they need to be right now.
Simply hold space for your self firstly,
then share your genuine love overflow
with aligned and kind souls.
No force, no advice.
No shallow limits.
There is enough sun shining for kindness
to sow and grow and thrive and flourish in many forms.
Let your light shine.
Unapologetically.
Without fear or favour.
No reason. No words. No mind attachments.
Continue to love the diverse, the different and the misaligned safely from afar, if need be.
It is all included in one benign universe.
Do not let other peoples limit;
racism, addiction, misogyny, drunks and drug use,
ageism, inability to self reflect or critically think,
inability to feel life fully or own their limits and choices responsibly.
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| Make no mistake, I’m not what you think. |
Simply Accept not agree. Accountability.
Simply Accept not a greed. Responsibility.
Simply Accept and include it all in one benign universe.
Simply, serenely, sensually from your wholeness of life overflowing, just let them and love them.
For love has always been enough is enough.
Unadulterated pure and simple Love is the fuel of the universe.
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| Cherish the ones who make you feel alive. |
Unchanging self love,
unwavering self love,
unadulterated self love is the bare minimum
self respect of one whole inclusive life.
First love yourself. F.L.Y.
Always was, always will be.
Lighten up!
Why so serious unless it is!
Joy full
Grateful
Meaning full
Use full
Wonder full
Respect full
Grace full
Care full
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| Internal moonlight like that can never be dimmed. |
What and who are you full of right now?
Self love,
Level up
Well come to life’s reality.






