CREATOR’S RATIO.
I find it so strange how some people will dislike you off hearsay alone. No direct interaction or personalized experience, just going off the misconstrued stories, misconceptions, and insecurities of others. So thankful that I know how to use my own judgment and discernment.
When you realise that some people’s intentions is rooted in weakening another’s character, bending their truth, and tarnishing their name, maybe then you will detach from perceptions and stories that do not belong to you.
And if takes a random rumor to turn against someone, the source, then they were never meant to truly know you.
Let them miss out. The Creator knows your heart. You trust your own self knowledge in deference to their limitations. Also known as self ignorance. Lack of awareness of their own consciousness. Conscioysness is there, in everyone, often just shrouded in attached mind conditions, attached mind inter generational “trauma”, attached mind people pleasing and perfectionism or even counterfeit empathy.
I’ve noticed a pattern of those “attached mind” judgmental or limiting people who then mostly benignly project their self ignorance. especially when it’s a friend or someone close to them, they “think” they know but they have no idea in reality.
So thet need to think that they are in control. Due to insecurity, or insincerity. Or gunked up within. Escaping reality, still attached to the adolescent patterns of the “bottle or bong” they attach limiting judgments and project them onto others in the name of “loyalty”.
Whole time it’s their own family of origin, their parents, their folks that actually need to be held accountable. For the attached mind conditioning from their own conception (was it for love, in lust, failed contraception, religious dogma, or that’s just what “in love for love”couples do, Pro create?)
Once you realise your own fullness. Your own wholeness, your own total integration life becomes “from love, not for love”
You may then complete a so called “individuation” where you finally surrender to your own true nature cease the reaching, cease thinking you know, cease blaming others, cease blaming your self and simply get on with coping with this one bare moment. That is the only reality that exists. No projections of trying to control a never to arrive future (anxiety) no ganging onto old stories or old energy that you long ago moved on from. (Integrated and learned the less on…)
So to be aware of Pure chaos and delusion in others is incredibly simple. Listen and observe four times more than you speak. Creators ratio, the golden ratio, 2 ears, 2eyes, 1 mouth. Wise integrated whole not perfect true natured people use them in that Fibonacci ratio.