Captain of Your Own ShiFt. ðŊ%
Dear Men,
You too, are allowed to take time to process, to heal, to rebuild whatever they left broken inside you. You too, are allowed to just let yourself feel whatever it is you need to feel, and then let it go.
You are not weak. you too, are allowed to be human. Don't mistake solitude for loneliness.
Deciding to be alone is different from being isolated. When people think it's harmful to be by themselves, time alone is more likely to make them lonely. Isolation is unpleasant seclusion.
Solitude is often a peaceful choice. The dis integrated ego (“intellect”) thinks it has all the answers, limited attached minds thinking it knows, seeking certainty, unable to embrace the spontaneity of present moment awareness.
There is so much we don't know, far more than we know, and much that we will never know because common, ordinary, simple consciousness is subtly there in true nature. Unwavering self worth (consciousness) once the attached fluctuations of the mind are stilled, is accessible to all who simply dismiss all that they are not. Stillness within, fullness within, a grounded uncertain realisation that all is well in this present moment awareness. If we are honest, No one has any idea what is about to happen unless they THINK they are some sort of ascended woo woo physic selling, telling or yelling (myopic limiting mind attached projections) because they believe they know you better than you already know your own true nature. Do not be swayed by anything external that insults your soul or hurts your wide open yet discerningly protected heart. Empathy without boundaries is futile. Therefore, choose to commune in aligned communities, realising the present moment FULLNESS of their own true nature. Those who are open to listen and receive, those who are curious learners who realise without admitting they do not know, how can they possible continue to learn? Don’t be afraid to suck at something new. Take response ability, listen, learn, follow your heart, follow your passions, be accountable for ALL your own choices in life. DO NOT blame, shame or finger point by becoming a limited people pleaser, or perfectionist, or limiting small minded myopic over sharer. Stay energetically in your own lane, respect FULL, grace FULL, meaning FULL, wonder FULL, and simply ask, what am I full of right now? Feel it FULLY, but do not become it.
Do not judge “negative” energy in motion as worse or less than. Simply accept them and make room to feel them , then release them. Do not MIND attach to external labels or external experts, or external societal NONE SENSE, be the captain of your own shiFt. Don’t dump your lack of navigational awareness or running aground on the rocks on any other crew member. Sure, work as a team, sure, keep a wise lookout, sure learn to ride the rolling decks in the midst of a storm, but Do not apportion blame if you are ultimately in charge of your own beauty full, fine floating vessel. If a captain blames all those “others” over there, they will soon have no crew (or crap low quality moaning/whining/complaining/unhappy crew) or possibly even a mutiny on their hands. Hey Captain Queeg? Ice cream, steel balls, Caine Mutiny style… (DYOR)
Learning to embrace "not knowing" and being at peace with that is a potent spiritual practice.
