Joy Attracts Joy. Simple Quantum Physics.

Being kind doesn’t mean tolerating disrespect. It doesn’t mean overextending yourself or allowing others to take advantage of your good heart. True kindness exists alongside boundaries. It says, "I will be good to you, but I will not abandon myself in the process.”

An immature man sees a woman as an object that exists to serve the needs of his dis integrated ego. 

An immature emotionally limited man takes, he dominates, he is limited and limiting in his learning, his insecurity “steals” her time and her energy, mostly innocently and unconsciously. That is what “limited” means, unconscious's. Doing his best, but let’s face it, sometimes that best is still minimal, limited and narrow. No connection between heart, mind and balls. Immature, insecure, limited men remain disconnected from their whole being. Lost in living a half (or less) life, external labels still attached, conditions attached, deep unresolved mummy n daddy programming still running his current shit show, projecting, telling, mates rates, 6 cans in and he starts to loosen up, fixated on stereo typical shallow definitions of fear and follow the Rat Pack, high as a kite still running away shit scared or scarred, still tightly tethered to the screaming remote con troll, the whining baby bottle or the let’s get outa here check out of reality cheat sheet short cut scared witless bong, an baby boy yet to individuate or realise his own foundational, unwavering, warrior not worrier, true nature. 

A Divine Man sees a woman as the counterpart to his soul-- a healer, an oracle, a creatrix, and a portal between the spiritual and physical realms. He adores her, without losing him self, he listens and is directly kind in the truth he shares, he creates a safe nurturing space where she can come completely undone, vulnerability, emotional connection and he realises the body is the portal to the soul. He realises there is nothing to realise, he simply listens and responds authentically from his wide open discerning heart from moment to moment. He does not leave when things get hard, he leaves when disrespected or love is no longer being served. It is cool to be kind and fierce gracious Kindness more than material sales and superficiality. Beauty without depth is just decoration and a divine man will not waste his time on shallow, narrow or callow. A sacred equal partnership realises alignment and flow only comes from love, not for love. He has ceased reaching or chasing or saving maidens in self made repeated crisis, constant chaos or dreary patterns of victim hood drama. He is there to support your whole soul, the things he willingly wants to do for you, share openly with you and with a Mutual consensual passion, to you. 

Sometimes someone doesn't like you because your light shines into their darkness and forces them to see things they don't want to face. That's okay. Where they are and how they react is not your responsibility. Stay confident, keep being YOU, and don't let anyone dim your light.

Quitters, afraid of either your bright shining light or not yet realising their own light, are going to naturally quit anyway. Quitters give up or leave because things get hard, no spine,those without resilience sell out and run, give up and quit, no fortitude or patience or diligence. Beware the glib life sales people who put on a fancy facade and consistently sell out their own grandmother to secure the next shiny plastic bauble. Those wearing obvious Masks, existing behind walled false facades with limiting and unethical bait and switch manipulation are simply that, limited. Not wrong, not bad, not evil, just superficially beauty full without the depth nor discernment of unwavering core values and realising who they already are at a foundational level. Of course include them, love them from afar, wish them all the best but do not directly enter those swampy, fetid shallow quick sands. You will get sucked in and disappear without a trace in that glitzy glamorous hamster wheel cess pit. Get off that limiting conditional programmed societal none sense brand wagon immediately, if not sooner. 

Simplify your life, the hardest thing for complex attached minds is to be simple. The fomo is over whelming, keeping up appearances, contesting, competing, comparing trying hard to win at life by putting others down. The Limiters, the quitters, the mind attached staid and stuck boring routines, non learners, stuck back in the day, yearning for the good old daze, those who think they know you better than you already know your own true nature, love them more, they definitely need it! Then simply lighten up, why so serious unless it is… 

Carry on mudda duckers

Quack quack 

Yes, pleased, 

All the best 

Thank you remains the highest mantra 

May peace be with you