Quiet Thunder
Unhealthy attached FOR love is when two people use each other to escape their problems.
They mind attach.
Unaccountable. Irresponsible. Immature.
They project and dump their unresolved dis integrations on "The Other", over there...
There are two far from whole dis integrated egos.
They mind attach.
Unaccountable. Irresponsible. Immature.
They project and dump their unresolved dis integrations on "The Other", over there...
There are two far from whole dis integrated egos.
They do NOT listen and seek revenge or remain jealous and bitter.
There is convenience of settling into UNCONSCIOUS patterns of repetitive drama and chaos and crisis.
There is the limitations of people pleasing and perfectionism and counterfeit empathy without standards or boundaries.
Healthy FROM love is when two people listen and receive each other and communicate non violently and openly to address their concerns and "problems".
There is convenience of settling into UNCONSCIOUS patterns of repetitive drama and chaos and crisis.
There is the limitations of people pleasing and perfectionism and counterfeit empathy without standards or boundaries.
Healthy FROM love is when two people listen and receive each other and communicate non violently and openly to address their concerns and "problems".
They do this early.
Not swept under the carpet or delayed or ignored.
They connect discerningly, adoringly, no reason, heart to heart.
There is mutual tenderness and mutual respect and mutual aligned core values.
They own their choices of behaviour, words and actions. (and own their shiFt)
Healthy FROM love is simply UNWAVERING UNCHANGING SELF WORTH.
Both realise who they are.
Both realise what they do NOT want.
Both realise what they deserve.
And both
do NOT settle for less.
And when BOTH realise, there is NOTHING to realise,
that is when from love, one moment please, really becomes simple, common, ordinary and everywhere.
Self worth unwavering is simply grounded, whole, total, absolute, consciousness.
Who we all already are and always will be.
Even a child knows how to gossip and chatter.
So what is scarce and rare?
Silence.
The ability to deliberately keep yourself out of the conversation and subsist without its validation. Silence, which is NOT the absence of speaking, silence is to remain inwardly still, at peace and calm regardless of any external chaos.
True "silence", a calm abiding inner stillness, is the respite of the confident and the strong.
Two eyes
Two ears
One mouth
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