And Truth Is? Love Aligned Is The Way.
WHAT IF THE ROOTED MALE & THE WILD FEMALE WENT ON A DATE?
Here's where they'd get lost in...
1 - Presence - Holy Temptation
They don't need any distractions. No scrolling no small talk.
They're sitting opposite each other - playing with a glance, breathing together.
He holds the room like an ancient mountain.
She flows like the fresh breeze in the Himalayas.
She feels safe to surrender.
He is honored to be a witness.
2 - Sensuality - Not only touch, but every sense
They don't rush to kiss. Instead, they’re diving deeper.
The warmth of reaching hands - slowly.
Chocolate cake taste on the lips.
The sound of laughter passing in silence.
Every sense opens up.
Every emotion intensifies.
Fear and doubt melt away.
3 - Dance - where the body speaks its language
Music starts but it's not about steps.
She moves like liquid lava - teasing, attracting, submissive.
He follows - not to control, but to witness, to admire.
They are losing themselves.
Not in each other, but in the energy they pours through.
The dancer disappears .
Only the dance remains.
4 - The pause - Where silence is more powerful than words
They don't fill the room with forced conversations.
In the silence, they hear untold stories.
The longing of a lifetime between her breaths.
Love does not have to be expressed all the time.
Often all she needs is a safe space, to be, to breathe.
5 - Devotion - Worship without possession
He's not trying to own her.
She's not trying to tame him.
She's wild but not messy.
He is grounded but not stiff.
They meet as sovereign beings, not as two halves of a whole.
They don’t complete each other – they inspire each other.
This is not an addiction.
This is dedication.
This is Tantra.
A love that lives within them
And what happens when the night ends?
They don't cling.
They're not afraid to lose the magic.
Because they know - the rooted male and the wild female do not exist outside of them.
They exist in them.
In Tantra, this association is called Ardhanarishwara: the sacred balance of Shiva and Shakti within us.
Your lover won't wake her up for you.
You have to meet yourself first.
Because love isn't about finding someone.
It means reminding oneself.
Love as the Way - Beyond Illusions
The times we live in are chaotic.
We’re either too closed or too reactive, suppress our deepest longings – and then confuse outbursts with self-expression.
In its highest form, love is the first victim of this unconscious storm.
But the sages, the mystics, the poets - they knew.
They whispered love is divine.
That true love touches God.
Because if you really loved - not only the body, but the soul - then you need no mantras, no meditations, no writings anymore.
Love alone becomes the way.
Love alone becomes prayer.
Yet the love we're sold is just fear in disguise.
A transaction, a staged confirmation, passed on by those who have never touched their true breadth.
And so we inherit narrows.
We inherit lack.
We inherit longing we mistake for dedication.
The choice to love differently
But if you choose to lose -
when you decide to love differently -
You will be misunderstood.
You are mocked, questioned -
because you're breaking a system.
You step out of the framework that makes love tame, predictable and controllable.
And this is terrifying for those who have never felt love in its raw, untamed, ecstatic truth.
But keep going.
Because when you consciously walk the path of love, you touch what Buddha touched, in which the great mystics dissolve.
You don't just love a person - you love the universe through them.
You see God in his eyes.
You see God in your own.
And in this moment, love is enough.
She has always been enough.
If this resonates with you, share it with someone you love - beyond rules, beyond expectations, beyond narrows that the world has taught you.
~ Chandresh Bhardwaj
