CONNECTED NOT ATTACHED


Social media ruined love.
Now everyone thinks they have options.
No one wants to commit. 
Just swipe up another option.

No one wants to stay. 
Weak to weak. Daze to daze. 
Next life long partner.

No one wants to grow. 
Transact and trade. 
Sell it on marketplace. The partner, that is.

One argument and they are already texting someone else.
Most modern relationships are full of far from whole
minions trying to out-trauma each other.

Everyone wants to be the victim, 
blame, shame and finger point.
"It's all those "others" over there"

The next revolving door ex,
the next bed warming trade in swipe right, 
it must be their fault.

the fuck buddy convenient neighbour, 
it must be their fault.

the hard working immigrant, who gets ahead. 
it must be their fault.

the learners who apply them self and make shift happen, 
it must be their fault.

the learners who work hard and study diligently with self discipline, 
it must be there fault.

the excellent politicians who listen, work hard and boldly lead, 
it must be their fault.

Oh yes, 
social media makes it all so easy to blame others. 
Deflect and deny.

No one wants to be 
create their own inner space 
to hold multitudes.

No one knows what style, 
grace or accountability even are.

Easier to control and manipulate and avoid feeling life. 
Attached to survival.

Easier to blame and shame and remain entitled. 
Attached to a mind that is not here, 
wholly.

Limited. 
Not wrong or evil or bad. 
Attached to a mind that is anxious.

Limiting. 
Narrow, callow, shallow. 
Attached to a mind that is fear full.

attached to thinking you know; 
gas lighting, projecting, whining, complaining, 
telling NOT listening,

attached to 
"that's the way we've always done it"
attached to 
traditions, commercialised, sales, marketing,
attached to 
festivals, holy days, take the free sales tinder swipe social media marketing load,
even if you aren't even christian, or muslim, or hindu 
or whatever... 
take take take
fake fake fake  
attached tik tok 3 second spans
the instagram lifers, attached, 
the fake book addicts, attached, 
the over sharers and 
celebrity chasers,

attached to the business model
attached to the sales and marketing bullshit,
attached to inherited intergenerational patterns;
attached to mummies chaos, daddies drama, societies none sense,
attached to siblings bouncing from crisis to crisis, 
compete, compare, control.

hook up marketplace cultures 
sold from partner to partner.

insecure lost little attached puppies.
attached to routine ruts and hamster wheel half lives,
attached to the alcohol baby bottle to get them through

attached to the bong and weed disassociated
attached minds many patterns 
other joints and brands and lines of drugs; 
perfectionism, 
people pleasing, 
no standards
slopping centre 
sales and transactions
all ok all included all predominant (if you choose) 
That’s why love doesn’t last anymore. 
It’s a blame game. 
Hooked up. 
A revolving door. 
Enmeshed. 
Mixing up sex for love. 
Convenience. 
Confused little minions. 
Not bad. Not wrong. Not evil. 
Ticking boxes. 
Check lists. 
Unfeeling. 
Anxious. 
Mind attached
Drinking, smoking, fucking, IT away. 
If you choose to remain 
self ignorant 
that is Ok. 
limited with mind attachments
that is Ok. 

instead 
JOY FULL RESPECT FULL
heart connect
from love not for love
cease the reaching
Connect, surrender, receive, 
your true self 
that is... 

COMMON SENSE is SENSUAL

PRIORITISE ☮️

RESPECT FULL. GRACE FULL. MEANING FULL. HEART CONNECT NOT MIND ATTACH.

ATMA VIDYA. DIRECT, JOYOUS, SIMPLE.

LIFE LIVE IT