ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
Do not con fuse whole love with relating
Do not con fuse from love with convenience
Do not con fuse love with sex
Do not con fuse unconditional love with mind attachment
Do not con fuse adoring, tender love with less than you deserve
Do not con fuse a patient, kind and aligned love with a disintegrated, con fusing self ignorance
Do not con fuse a spacious, gracious listening love with assumption or disrespect.
Do not con fuse a connected, light hearted joyous love with attached reason.
Do not con fuse a peace FULL love with constant self righteous, arguing, conflicted stress.
Do not con fuse an unwavering self love, unchanging self worth, unadulterated humility
with an anxious dominance, a depressed addiction or mind afflictions.
Simply realise there is NOTHING to realise
once we dismiss all that insults our soul or
hurts our wide open protected discerning heart.
Cease The Reaching.
Relax, NOTHING is under control.
Surrender to your whole SELF, only.
Integrate, wholeness is NOT perfection.
ONE whole creature in creation is simply the
COMPLETE acceptance of EACH bare moment.
No resistance to This Exact moment of Reality.
No fighting with what is. Reality.
No denying another's lived experience.
No over sharing,
No gaslighting.
No projecting YOUR limitations onto others or attaching your limiting assumptions.
No projecting YOUR values and priorities onto other's
(because YOU are still mind attached to your own dogma, stigma and limiting beliefs)
No people pleasing following the herd (all you see is assholes)
No perfectionism and following The Crowd. (all you hear is a dis integrated ego)
Listen and learn of course.
Accept of course. (NOT necessarily agree of course)
From LOVE of course.
Remember
The Body Is The Portal To The Soul.
The Temple is The Discerning Access to The Heart.
Connect NOT mind attach.
If there is reason and logic and material convenience ATTACHED it is NOT from love.
Love has no reason. MIND Attachments ARE reasons.
Relating, convenience, material comforts, shared bills, pay the mortgage, share the rent/costs/child rearing all MIND attachments, all OK and all included in a SUCCESSFUL relationship.
But even THAT is NOT from pure, simple, unadulterated, unwavering, unchanging love.
And that is OK.
but rather FOR Love.
And that is OK. In a co dependent, ego based, ego dominant, far from WHOLE RELATING.
And that is OK and what most "relationships" devolve into.
And that is OK.
Going through The Motions.
Taking each other for granted.
Constant conflict, unresolved arguments, egg shell tensions,
excessive MIND attachments
and possibly even leading to anxiety, depressive over thinking,
or other adolescent coping addictions.
The Wide Open Discerning Heart is The Centre of A Grounded Spacious FROM love space.
So how to create that inner space and grace?
Simply re integrate towards wholeness.
Once we realise there is NOTHING to realise, we start to actually LIVE fully.
grace FULL
respect FULL
wonder FULL
use FULL
meaning FULL
totally FUL of what?
YOU.
Fully humble as ONE UNIQUE creature in ONE whole universe.
Nothing excluded,
Nothing NOT included.
Surrender wholly to YOU.
Drop the mind attachments.
Dismiss the less than stories.
Ditch all that hurts the soul or is constantly misaligned.
Catch your own ENERGY early.
Check IN with you. EARLY.
Trust your OWN process. NOW,
You are complete and whole and living an accepting life as YOUR own True Nature.
Enough is enough.
Always was (ENOUGH) always will be. (enough)
ONCE YOU ACCEPT YOUR WHOLE SELF.
And Nothing else.
