KTBH open eyes, open unattached mind

 Living in private, dating in private, making money in private, healing in private, unlearning in private, integrating in private, regulating emotions in private, managing insecurities in private, breaking toxic patterns in private, and growing in private is top tier self-care. Privacy is not secrecy nor isolation. Privacy is self regulation. Privacy is not over sharing. Privacy is not attaching to “thinking” you know someone better than they already know themself. Privacy is not gaslighting, privacy is not forcing, privacy is not denying another’s lived experience. 

A bold doer achieves more than an overanalysing limiting attached over sharing thinker — not because recklessness is wiser, but because hesitation is the graveyard of brilliance. Sitting back, attached to mind routine, attached to the mind job, attached to inter generational mind beliefs is death in another guise. Instead, loosen up without the adolescent attached aids; alcohol, drugs, verbosity of over sharing. Remain in your own power; centred, grounded, knowing what you deserve, knowing what you don’t want. Knowing who you already are. Simple, full, common, whole, unique not special, not above nor below any other. Just another creature in creation. Fierce Ease and wild grace. Nobodies Slave, nobodies lackey, nobodies push over. Simple. Common. Ordinary, consciousness. 

While the attached anxious over thinker drafts the fifteenth contingency plan for a move they’ll never make, the grace full doer stumbles often, failing forward with self respect, creating constantly tiny life experiments, happy to fail publicly, wonder fully owns it, learns use fully loudly, and intentionally builds, makes, creates their one full whole life that the attached anxious over thinker only sketches in their sterile attached mind cave.

In a world that rewards discerning momentum more than mastery, action, however convoluted or clumsy, always outruns precision wrapped in attached anxiety, an addicted analysis by paralysis. On loopy loop repeat.